The Value of Training

I received this from an email subscription. I am excited to share this tip with you. I learned something, I hope you do too!Every day you’re training your children to become healthy responsible adults. Is it okay to get up and walk away in the middle of a meal? Is it acceptable to leave the table without helping to clean it up? Is it all right to eat without saying thank you to the one who prepared the meal? How will kids learn what’s appropriate if you don’t train them?Unfortunately, as parents we get upset when our children need lots of correction or when they can’t seem to change right away. It is true that some problems our children have take longer to overcome than others. Our response as parents is important, though. Our exasperation can damage the relationship. Firmness is important but the harshness can do more harm than good.Kids make mistakes. Whether the errors are deliberate or accidental, children need a godly way to think in order to get back on track. Identify an issue you wish would change in one of your children. It might be arguing whenever you give an instruction or complaining when life doesn’t go just right. Break the problem down and think of the alternatives you wish your child could do or think.Talk about healthy alternatives and look for positive ways to motivate your child to maturity. You may have to use consequences to motivate change but don’t neglect the potential of teaching new patterns of thinking, developing new skills, and giving children a vision for doing what’s right.Most of all, be patient. Training takes time and implies lots of work. You’re a coach and your children are in training. Give your kids a vision for living life on a different level and they will grow into some great relating patterns.This idea was taken from the book, Home Improvement, The Parenting Book You Can Read to Your Kids, by Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN.

Comments

  1. Parang may tinge of guilt akong naramdaman dito. I'm expecting a lot from my children these days…there were instances na kailangan nilang sumunod, but i haven't really explain why they need to do so which is unfair to them.

    Mommy Chris, thanks for this helpful information. 🙂

  2. christinnjon says:

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