We’ve been homeschooling for the past 6 years now and about to start our 7th year soon. It has been a hard but joyful journey. There has been days that I have felt like giving up but through the grace of the Lord, we’re still continuing our homeschool journey and about to embark on a new season soon. To mark the start of our 7th year in a few months, I’m sharing 7 lessons I’ve learned through the years…
Children are not wired the same way. They learn differently and have different personalities. As homeschool parents, we need to know each of our children and communicate with them and teach them via their learning styles. They also progress differently, some have a natural gift for the arts while others think more logically.
Learning takes place even outside a curriculum. We don’t need to be slaves to the curriculum we are using. We don’t need to do the lessons cover to cover – as homeschooling parent, we have the freedom to tweak our curriculum and make it work for our children. If not fit, then try something else. We need to become flexible.
Learning is a lifestyle. Once you embark on the homeschooling journey, you will realize that homeschooling is actually a lifestyle. We become more intentional in everything we do. Learning to appreciate life and being grateful to God for all that He has done for us becomes more important that memorizing historical information.
As teacher-parents, we become students as well. We need to have a teachable heart and humble spirit because the Lord will definitely use our children to teach us about life and what truly matters.
Expect hard days. When you did you best and your child still can’t understand that math concept, when your patience is running out because of all the chores that needs to be finished while your kids don’t want to “do” school work and you have a deadline to beat, when you think your children will be better off if they are in school, when you feel inadequate and when no one wants to cooperate. These days will come and it is important to remember why you wanted to homeschool your children. Have a mission statement for your homeschooling or better yet, have a vision for your children.
There are different seasons in homeschooling. Because homeschooling is synonymous with life and our children grow, we need to embrace each season. Enjoy playing with them, laughing with them and reading with them. As they move to the next season, converse with them about life issues, know their interests and their hearts. As they pursue their dreams in life, support them and guide them.
Praying for our children and your homeschooling is an important part of preparation for homeschooling. When we realize that homeschooling can only be done through the grace of God, then can we actually become better parent-teachers. We are equipped by the Lord to handle our children and we grow as we serve and love our family.